Birthday weekend

I hit 23 years this past Saturday (the 30th of Oct), and it was a good one. First of all, I had some delicious cheese cake with cherry topping, courtesy of my awesome wife.



And despite being 23, I can't keep in my excitement when I see a present that I've been looking for since getting married.



It's an ice cream spade! These things make scooping ice cream a pleasure, and this spade has anti-freeze in the handle, so it keeps the ice cream from sticking. It's awesome.



Look at this sweet pumpkin. I wonder what incredibly talented and clever people sculpted it. Oh wait....yeah... it was us. In all seriousness, it's a simple design, and took us about two hours.





We were going for spooky, and I think we nailed it.

Halloween weekend was fantastic. We were able to accomplish a good bit, and to finish off my birthday we went to outback! I love that place. We had some gift cards as well, so we ordered an appetizer, I got soup, and a full rack of ribs. Tack on the free bread and honey butter they gave us, and my free dessert for turning 23, and our table looked like there should have been another couple there. It was great. Operation: Super B-Day was a huge success.

Another great week ahead

This upcoming week has a lot in store. Most importantly could be the new job I'm starting. I've been working on campus since January (excluding the summer) and I've really enjoyed it. But, I've been feeling a change is in store, so I sent out a few resumes and had a few interviews, and ended up agreeing to go work for a company called Doba.

Who is Doba? Good question. They are a drop shipping company. What Doba does is offer a service to people who are trying to start online businesses with eBay or Amazon.com. The idea is to give access to 1.6 million products at wholesale price, which they in turn can sell on Amazon or eBay or whatever for a small profit. The cool thing is that they make it super duper easy to post products on eBay and other sites, and Doba doesn't require users to pay for products until the item has been sold. Then Doba will ship the product, the user pays Doba, and whatever is left after the wholesale price and shipping is the small profit that the user keeps. I hope that makes sense.

So how do I make money? I call people that have signed up for a free two week trial of Doba and offer them a membership for either 40 dollars each month, or 400 (or something like that) dollars each year. I do get a base pay, and then if I can get sales, it boosts my pay more. So there is potential to make a decent amount of money.

I'm excited if it all works out. The hours are better, the pay could be much better, and it's good experience. In the end, if I end up finding that it's a lame place to work, I can quit, and my boss on campus has told me there is a return policy, that they'll take me back. So I don't have a lot of pressure on me right now which is a definite plus.

At any rate, that's my new job and we hope it works out well. Also, we have quite a bit of school work due. I have 3 tests this week and a small paper due, and Becca seems to have quizzes or tests every other day. I've also got an ultimate frisbee game which will be fun.

In the end, I just wanted to get on here and say life isn't too shabby right now. Becca and I are enjoying BYU, we've got a sweet apartment, a great ward, a fun calling, and overall no complaints. I'm a lucky guy.

Six Months!

Ben and I hit our six month anniversary last Sunday. Pretty hard to believe if you ask me. We were trying to decide how long we'll be considered "newlyweds". I think a year is past the newlywed stage, so it has to be sometime between now and then, right?

We celebrated it on Monday, because on Sunday it's hard to do anything. Ben surprised me with these beautiful flowers, which I am still enjoying immensely. We hung out all day and went to Olive Garden for dinner that night. It was great.

I talked to Mom on our one month anniversary and she asked if we still liked each other. The answer was yes. And just so you know Mom, six months later...that answer is still yes. We still like each other a whooooole, whole lot. We couldn't be happier.

It's nice to have a little pick-me-up every so often...

My anatomy teacher emailed this video out to all of us today because it has been a particularly trying week for the class. I thought it was so good. Elder Holland is always able to speak so powerfully, and he gets his point across so beautifully.

It is so important to always remember to trust in the Lord. To remember that he is always there for you, and mindful of everything you're going through. He understands what you're feeling because he's felt it too. His hand is always outstretched for us to grab onto. No matter how small (like a very busy, stressful week of school) or how huge the issue may seem, he wants you to come unto him, and put your trust in him. He will never leave you comfortless.

catching up...again..

I hope to one day be a great blogger, where I don't have to cram six weeks into one post every single time. One day it will happen. But today is not that day. So here we go again!

It has been an excellent few weeks. Here are the highlights:

1) I FINALLY GOT A JOB!! WOOOOO!!! I am working in the X-Building (ASB, Administration Building, Abraham Smoot Building, whatever you prefer) in the assessment and analysis department. They are in charge of all the major surveys that have to do with BYU. My project is to input everyone's answers from the Alumni Survey into the computer. All 2000+ surveys. Sound a little bit on the boring side? That is because it is. But I tell you what, I have never been happier to have a job. I'm so excited.

2) We hiked the Y together for the first time.




3) We gave up on trying to decorate our house without using nails. So our apartment is slowly, but surely starting to look more like a home.


4) I got a haircut by a beginning student at the Paul Mitchell School. I was going to post a picture, but I don't think I'm quite ready for the world to see it just yet. Suffice it to say, I will not be returning to that sweet young lady for a haircut ever again.

5) We made caramel apples. p.s. - i love this picture of Ben.


6) Ben and I got a new calling. We are the Family Search and Temple Committee chairs. So we help the ward along with learning to use new family search, indexing, etc. We got to speak in Sacrament meeting on Sunday about temples, and I really think this is going to be a cool calling. We're both pretty excited for it.

Back in Provo

Well, I know we had been looking forward to getting back to Provo, and so far it has been pretty great. A few set backs here and there, but mostly it's been pretty sweet.

We started out in a cozy basement. You could easily see the whole place from the entrance. Not only that, but the ceilings were about 6 and a half feet high, so with any doorways, I would have to duck down. Also, the shower ceiling dropped down to six feet, so showering wasn't an easy task either. Apart from the indoor conditions, it was about 6 blocks from campus, so it took up to 20 minutes to get to classes. Seeing as how I have 8 o'clock classes, it wasn't very fun for me. To be honest, the place really wasn't that bad. It had a very nice feel to it, with granite counter tops, and a great sink. In addition, we had a washer and dryer (major convenience), and it was our first real place to live on our own. After having lived like kings in Arkansas though, with flat panel TV's and housekeeping, this was just a wake up call. And so it was our first real place where we lived as a married couple. We moved after 2 and a half weeks.



Now we live in what I would consider to be our first long term place. It's awesome! It's the perfect size for us, super close to campus (2 minutes and we're at the Smith Fieldhouse), reserved parking spot, and 8 foot high ceilings. And it only costs 35 bucks extra a month. So, needless to say, we're pretty happy. We'll post pictures soon.

One bittersweet aspect about moving was buying our own stuff. In our basement, he had dressers and a microwave for us. And besides, there wasn't any room for other stuff. But here, we had to buy a table, couch, chairs, microwave, desk, bookshelves, and some home decor stuff. It's been pretty fun, and KSL has really come in handy.

In other news, we are still studying at BYU. My classes aren't all that great, and Becca is studying like mad in Anatomy. It's fun to learn though, I suppose. I'm excited to be done, even though it's at least two years away.

Even though our summer was spent working and trying to save money, we're glad we made it back in time for the fall. It's completely gorgeous, and we decided to take some time to go hiking. We were told of some nice, easy hikes we could do, and we went to Payson, Utah (a bit south of Provo) to walk on a trail called "The Grotto". It wasn't too tough, and it ended with a little waterfall. It was incredibly pretty though, with leaves turning colors, and trees everywhere, with little streams along the trail. It was a great time. We even made Becca's day by finding a few lost cattle in the middle of the road. If one could have fit in the trunk, we probably would have taken it with us. It was followed up by watching some football. The fall rocks.

Tender Mercies

You know how sometimes things happen and you just know without a doubt that you are being watched out for? That's how I'm feeling right now. Here's just a few of the latest examples:

1. Ben already wrote about the two car accidents that he was so close to last week. It was really scary. In fact,when one of them happened, I actually thought he had been involved in it. I didn't have a phone at the time, but I figured out how to send him text messages from the computer. So he “texts” me and tells me that there had just been a really bad car accident and that someone had died. Then... he didn't give me any other information for at least another half hour. Of course, that half hour felt like six hours, and you can imagine my relief when he walked in the door a little later. Relief, and immense gratitude. That's how I'd describe it.

2. There's been some sort of stomach bug in our house the past couple days. While this may not seem like much of a blessing at all, it's darn easy for me to view it as one. See, Ben works pretty much all day, everyday, and I sit around at home by myself doing, basically, nothing. After a while, that starts to wear on you a little bit. So while it's probably really selfish of me to be grateful for sickness, I gotta admit, it was real nice to be able to see my husband for a couple days.

3. We have been searching desperately, and for a long time, for a place to live in Provo when we move back at the end of this month. It has been quite a stressful experience, especially living so far away. We find one we like, and either the people won't return our calls, or the rent has gone way up in the past few weeks, or it's already been rented out... there was always something. We finally found a place that would work for us. We called the guy to tell him our decision, and he told us he had just promised it to someone else. They'd be making their final decision that night, and if it didn't work out for them, it was ours. We tried to think positively, but let's be honest, it was a real bummer. Then, by some miracle, the next morning, we gave him a call and he told us the other people had passed up the offer and the place was ours!

4. After months and months of waiting (seriously, we started this process the week after we got married) we were finally told today that we are eligible to receive some money from federal grants! Hallelujah!

5. Ben made a sale today. He is awesome. And very humble. Every time he makes a sale I shower him with praise and he immediately tells me that we need to give credit where credit is due and say a prayer of thanksgiving for the tender mercy we were just blessed with. As I said before, he is awesome.

There are countless more of these little tender mercies happening in our lives every minute, but I am well aware of the fact that our blog posts are always a little bit on the long side, so I'll spare you. But let it be known that we are a very blessed little family.